Sex and Lovelessness
Love is all around, as we all know, and if we don't take time to let it inside the barren houses of our loveless souls, we become automatically deprived of many positive emotions and feelings it brings when becomes an all-time resident of our hearts, souls and bodies.
Lovelessness is a not very healthy thing for each person. If you don't have love in your life or even within your relationship, this very factor hardly ever contributes to your calm and peaceful psychological condition.
It's a well-known scientific fact that people living without love lack are missing out on things that are very healthy for you. Lovelessness equals certain hole in your soul which is scarcely possible to fill with anything similar.
Sex in the background of a total lovelessness implies nothing but trivial satisfaction of one's physical needs and animal instincts. Technically, it useful for your physical health, but it will hardly ever make your hollow soul less desolate and indifferent to romance.
Lovelessness may be result of one's failed romance and painful realization of the fact that another love story may bring equal amount of sad memories, bitter instants, and dramatic good-byes.
A person shies out from love in these cases, he or she is scared of finding himself (herself) in the same old breakup (abandoned) situation when you can only dream about peace of mind once a month, the rest dreams imply short but horrifying pictures from nightmares in the general background of a total sleepless existence.
In any case, a complete refusal from sex in these situations is harmful as well, that's why a person is free to do whatever he or she wants, have sex with whoever he (she) wishes. It will hardly ever bring anything more than transient pleasure and the feeling of physical satisfaction, but we don't have any right (and won't be able even) to prohibit or bitterly criticize.
We can only hope that the loveless ones will choose the right partner once upon a time, and will establish powerful emotional connection with him or her which will result in another love story. It sure may turn into another heartache and another failed romance over time, but oh well, these things happen and we should be strong enough to survive and find the will to carry on.
Sex and lovelessness are notions which when interconnected, don't fit each other like a glove but human subconscious irresistibly strong desire for love is powerful enough to change the situation to its own appealing taste and make the most of the happy-endish outcome.